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10 Reasons NOT to fall for bad boys!

Tuesday, June 28, 2011
This article actually based on the question i've got when i read one of my friend activity in Facebook. He wrote "why do girls keep nice guys as friend, but then they fall for some jerk?".

my answer to him it was, "they will comeback to the nice guy coz jerk only give them small amount of satisfaction, not a love. It's like money that can come and go. But the real love will stay longer. & honestly, all girl always dreaming about a nice guy as their Prince to come and pick them as the special one." Anyone disagree with this comment, then you can tell me why?

For girl sometimes chasing bad guy is more challenging than get a nice guy. i didn't said get the nice one is easy. Depend on the guy. But still, usually bad guy is more unpredictable. When we get him, it gives us more satisfaction, proud and feel like just got an award. BUT, you know what a risk to chasing, getting and having bad boy as your boyfriend..

So, here it is, I write down some point so you can consider to do not fall for one :

a. There's no real love
One thing you should know about them is love for them might be not the same like what think of love.

b. You are not God
if you think you can change him from doing bad to good. then prepare your heart to get hurt. You can't change him, only you can do is help him. remind him. but as long as his heart don't have faith to change, wait 1000 years, he wont change any better.

c. He'll broke your heart easily
Why i said so? cuz, he don't care about you. He might say love to you. but sometime he just not mean it. he just want to say it to avoid you get angry. not only about love word. it's about his behavior that sometimes different from what you tout before.

d. Take a lot of energy & time to get his attention.
Ok, here's a thing. Bad guy usually always surrounded by his friends, girls. in short word, he's popular. a lot of people around him. it's not easy to get his attention. i mean, the real attention. you have to try really hard to get one. Sometime only beautiful its not enough. you have to standout from others.

e. No guarantee he will change
Yeah, no guarantee that he will change. the one chance that he can change is if his heart say so. so, as long as his heart still want to be like this time, just throw away your hope... far far away, if you, be prepare to get hurt.

f. You are not on his top priority, maybe
You know what is his top priority? okay maybe have fun everyday is the first. then guy stuff the second. Job the 3rd. friends comes next. you? hm let say after all those. not easy work to make you as his first one, except if he wanted you so bad for his life, not for only a night or playing around.

g. He may cheat, without you know it
i this case let say that he's the popular and famous guy among his friend. he may cheat, and you no need to know (this what he thinks). when he cheat, doesn't mean he do serious with the cheater girl. maybe he just want to play around. being flirty with other girl that rush his adrenalin. you know, for fun.

h. He has a bunch of tricks
let say again he is popular, and he may cheat, in the middle of that two because he has a bunch of tricks that can make it work. between cheat and you. and would be a lot of white lie. The lied that he said it's no prob, while its freaking awful bad for you. Hey, he's smart btw. He use his own charisma and words to attract other people (read : girls)

i. They are in it for a Good times
They do good to you, you feel comfortable around him. You two have a good times all night. But then he is not calling you again in the morning. Crap! He was in only for good time. Maybe he was bored and need company, that what you are for him. Trust me, just walk away, if you are need a friend ONLY for good time, enjoy the night together, then he's the one. Because he wouldn't be there for you, for long-term good times, not for a relationship like you looking for. They are not in it for that. They have a bunch of "business" and need a huge of freedom to do that. Are you sure you can handle it?

j. They do Bad things
What to say, this what make them different and interesting in your eyes. I cant say exactly what the bad thing is, but they do. Everyone have different perception about things.
This my experience with bad guy, the X-files.. Well actually he's not that bad, i know he got influence from friend, but even me cant make him change his bad. He do smoke weed, he do drugs, and he do drink. A lots of them. Daily. He's not come to uni, just slept in the morning (usually around 6-7am is his time to sleep), he do club every time he have a chance, he never come to our date with a thousands reason, and bla bla bla. I just can say, he might be not have a bright future.

k. They are not a marriage material
This for you who look up a guy with marriage material. Prepare yourself to walk away. The bad guys just want to enjoy their time, playing and messing around, not going to have a serious, and relationship with commitment. It will limit their freedom. Seriously, better you walk away, or think that your relationship with him only as a friend. no more, and not less than that.

Purple play with Orange


Purple Play with Orange, Pantai Hillpark
Afternoon, 27th June 2011
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Lumiere


Lumiere, Pantai Hillpark
Afternoon, 27th June 2011
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Tumpuk awan


Tumpuk awan, Pantai Hillpark
Afternoon, 27th June 2011
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Afterwork Walking Home


Afterwork walking home, Pantai Hillpark
Afternoon, 23th June 2011
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Launch #30 Warna Langit

Friday, June 24, 2011
Hay, Peri Hutan bikin project baru nih. Judulnya #30 Warna Langit. Ikutan yuk, biar share bareng-bareng. nanti post kalian bisa di liat di Blognya Peri Hutan.

Isinya?
30 cerita tentang warna langit berisi foto-foto berikut ceritanya, gak boleh ambil dari Google ya. Gak harus semuanya langit, tapi paling gak harus keliatan background langitnya.

Tempat?
Boleh dari mana aja. Dari jendela kamarmu. Dari jalan yang selalu kamu lewati tiap sore. atau Dari pemandangan pagi pas kamu lagi nunggu bus.

Kapan?
Langitnya gak harus sore kok. walaupun kalo sore lebih bagus karena ada semburat orange nya. tapi langit kapan aja oke kok.

Caranya? Gampang!
  • kamu snap foto langitmu sendiri, lalu email ke sayadanperihutan@gmail.com atau ke fienna.nurhadi@hotmail.com,
  • jangan lupa cantumin cerita singkatmu tentang foto langit yang kamu ambil, atau apapun yang pengen kamu ceritain, deskripsi harinya (pagi, siang, sore), tempat dimana kamu ambil foto itu. Boleh tulis di body copy atau dalam format word. gak usah banyak-banyak. maksimal 3 paragrap.
  • Kalau fotonya udah di edit juga gak apa-apa, yang penting kamu yg snap bukan download dari google atau ambil punya orang.
  • Subjectnya : judul, tag #30 warna langit.
  • jangan lupa cantumin nama mu, id twitter mu atau facebook. kalau gak mau di tampilin, kasih tau ya.
  • Batas waktu? sampe akhir tahun ini juga boleh. tapi jangan sampe akhir2 banget ya..
Hasilnya?
tentu aja aku post di blog Peri Hutan. tenang, aku akan cantumkan nama kalian n id di bawah.

info lengkap? boleh tanya aku di email sayadanperihutan@gmail.com atau mention aku di @fienna_nurhadi n tag nya #30warnalangit.
siapa aja boleh ikutan kok. kutunggu yaa cerita dan foto langit kalian.

Yuk berbagi cerita langitmu hari ini!

QtD 24 June 2011 - T.G.I.F

Thanks God its Friday

I have nothing to think about. Only you.
I wish i'm not screwed up today in office.
Cuz my mind flying far away to your place.
To you.

and yes, Thanks God Its Friday
the day when we meet again and spend the rest of the week together.
the day when we meet again after tired with the whole week full of drama at school or chaos situation in office.
the day when we meet again, before i start fresh in Monday.

and yeah, Thanks God Its Friday
I cant wait to see you again waiting in front of my door, hug me tight and say, "I miss you".
I cant wait to hang out with you again, share the love and make my heart flying.
I cant wait to laughing with you again until Sunday finish and
say to each other "See you again next week"

Thanks God Its Friday...
I cant wait, i cant hold.
I wish today goin well and finally can see you again. :)

Warna yang Berbeda

Thursday, June 23, 2011
Sore yang oranye

Masih.

Aku masih jauh dari rumah. Lebih jauh pula sekarang.
Jadi nomaden 2 bulan ini.
Aku masih di hutan rantau yang sama,
masih pula di payungi langit yang sama.
Tapi di pemandangan jendela yang berbeda.

Sekarang saja sudah pukul 5 waktu langit oranye.
Semua atap gedung yang luasnya tak berbatas ini perlahan-lahan menjadi warna oranye transparan, bening memudar tapi tetap tampil cantik.
Langit tak buru-buru menjadi gelap ketika Bulan ingin mampir.
Langit masih menyempatkan waktunya ketika Sang Pencipta menorehkan warna cantik oranye ke kanvas langit.
Memayungi pejalan kaki yang hendak pulang.

Atau sekedar menyapa ramah "Selamat petang" pada sepasang muda-mudi yang tengah terlentang di rumput hijau, asyik memandang pada goresan indah yang Sang Pencipta torehkan hari itu, lalu mereka bersyukur masih bisa menghabiskan waktu bersama.

Lalu menyempatkan melambaikan angin kecilnya pada anak-anak kecil yang menabuh drum kecil ketika waktu mendekati adzan magrib. Saatnya berbuka sebentar lagi. Puasa seharian dari semua godaan yang ada.

Aku cinta langit oranye milik-Mu Tuhan.
Engkau mengguratkannya sempurna. Bersyukur masih bisa melihatnya, lalu menghirup aroma petang yang engkau tiupkan dan merasai gemerlapnya lampu-lampu malam yang menyala cantik menutup perjumpaanku dengan sang langit oranye.

Aku mengagumi langit oranye milik-Mu Tuhan.
Sungguh ciptaan yang sempurna. Tak bosan aku menatapnya. Tak mungkin kutemukan ciptaan seperti itu di kanvas lain. Hanya ada di kanvas milik-Mu Tuhan.

Aku berharap ketika esok tiba, aku bisa menatap langit yang sama, namun dengan guratan yang berbeda.. Tetap langit oranye ciptaanmu, tetap cantik dan tetap oranye.

A Destination for Inspiration - Putrajaya/Cyberjaya

Monday, June 06, 2011


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Little things About me





Name : Arfienna Ganeshia
Age : 23 yo
Nationality : Indonesian
Contact me : fienna.nurhadi@hotmail.com
ph : +60172556705
Click HERE, if you don't have so much time..

education/skills:
- Advertising that i want to know
more than just study about that
- writing is my passion

my things :
- i like to learn some new things,
to create unusual and creative simple things.
- i like to meet new people

I'm a student in Limkokwing University Malaysia,
my course is Professional Communication (major : Advertising),
this my 3rd and also final year. But at the same time i also a writer (beginner,
but will be a professional one someday) and still do blogging.
Almost this whole content of the blog is my writing.
Currently I'm looking a place that i can do my Internship to complete my study.
Maybe i would fit on your creative department since my background a lot of to do with writing.
But more than that, i would love to learn something new,
that later i can apply to find a dream job.

My hobby or things that i do on my free time :
- writing, it's good on me
- i do novel, short story, love letter (you can read some here )
- scriptwriting is new for me, but also interesting
- do experiment on photoshop
- click on photography (to shoot some moment and bring back to life even its the old one)
- reading, its always good to find new idea.
- listening some good songs
- travelling

Want to see what i can do?
Click here :
or... you can click on #Portfolio tag to see all of this at once
*more would be updated soon on this blog

**P.S : if you want to see ordinary, boring but informative version of my resume, please request me the Doc file :). But just in case, i sent together, on attachment.

My Simple CV




Love Letter #25 : Secangkir coklat panas & Lady Antabellum

Wednesday, June 01, 2011
Lagi.
Mood saya kacau balau tengah malam begini.
Nyaris kosong mood saya entah untuk menulis, atau untuk membaca, bahkan untuk mengerjakan seabrek tugas yang sedari kemarin menggedor otak minta di kerjai...
Nyaris kosong. Nyaris ludes. Nihil.

Sama keadaannya sama hati saya. Agak hambar, hampir ludes, dan nyaris kosong.
Saya belum ketemu dia dari kemarin sejak saya menghabiskan season 1 The Vampire Diaries. Si Dia hilang. Pergi gitu aja. Meninggalkan saya di belakang setelah nonton bareng seharian.

Then, my mind just sing this song, over and over again..
Lady Antabellum - Need you now
And i wonder if i ever crossed your mind
for me it happens all the time

its a quarter after one
I'm a little drunk
and i need you now
said i wouldn't call
but i've lost all control
and i need you now
and i don't know how i can do without
i just need you now

Bisa kalian bayangkan?
Tengah malam, merasa sendirian. Ada secangkir coklat panas dengan dosis double, di cangkir berwarna hitam. tepatnya di cangkir hitam kegemaran saya. dan lagu ini terus berputar, bernyanyi lalu berhenti. bernyanyi lagi, sedikit menyayat hati. bahkan bisa-bisanya dia mengalahkan "The Only Exception".

lalu lagi, potongan lirik Lady Antabellum menggoda saya untuk bernyanyi bersama..
And i wonder if i ever crossed your mind
for me it happens all the time
its quarter after one
im all alone
and i need you now
said i wouldn't call
but i've lost all control
and i don't know how can i do without
i just need you now

Mood saya yang hancur berantakan petang tadi, perlahan-lahan membaik.
secangkir coklat panas dengan dosis double, lalu beberapa kali berkubang dengan "Need you now" Lady Antabellum, rasanya seperti majik. Mengusir perlahan mood jelek saya. Memanggil mood enak yang saya kangenin sejak tadi pagi.

"Yes i'd rather hurt than feel nothing at all"
and "Yes oh baby, i just miss you now.."

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